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Do You Believe in Reasons?

February 3, 2014 by Joycelyn Campbell 9 Comments

Scientific Explanation
(Photo credit: Wonderlane)

Consider these two groups of people.

One group (Group A) believes that reasons are real and that reasons cause things to happen or not happen.

The other group (Group B) believes that invisible intentional agents are real and that invisible intentional agents cause things to happen or not happen.

What’s the difference between these two groups?

  • Both Group A and Group B are very confident in their beliefs. But the degree of confidence we have about what we think or believe has no correlation with the accuracy or reality of the thought or belief.
  • Neither Group A nor Group B can produce a tangible example of a reason or of an invisible intentional agent because both are figments of the imagination.
  • Whether reasons or invisible intentional agents are causing things to happen or not happen, the people in either group are not responsible.
  • As a result, the people in both groups have very little power to make things happen or to prevent things from happening.
  • Meanwhile, the people in Group B are busy (wasting time, effort, and energy) trying to fight off or appease invisible intentional agents, and the people in Group A are busy (wasting time, effort, and energy) first turning the events, situations, encounters, circumstances, and conditions of their lives into reasons—and then trying to address the problems they perceive to be the result of the reasons they have created!

Each group also feels superior to the other group. If you believe in reasons you’re much more likely to be seen as sane—even reasonable—by others. But it makes absolutely no difference whether you believe in reasons or you believe in invisible intentional agents. The bottom line is that something else—not you—is running your life.Enhanced by Zemanta

Filed Under: Beliefs, Brain, Choice, Consciousness, Living, Meaning, Mind Tagged With: beliefs, Power, Reasons, Responsibility

A Shortcut to Self-Awareness

July 25, 2013 by Joycelyn Campbell 4 Comments

The Temple of Apollo at Delphi, Greece
The Temple of Apollo at Delphi, Greece (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

If you aren’t yet convinced that much of what you do is completely outside your conscious intentions and control, the Enneagram might change your mind. At the time I wrote the following introductory post (Know Thyself) for my Enneagram blog Nine Paths, I had yet to learn just how much of our lives we spend on autopilot.

When you identify your type, you may find that the Enneagram knows you better than you knew yourself. It isn’t the personality equivalent of a Theory of Everything, but it gives you a place to look, a way to pay attention to what you’re doing, thinking, and feeling. It’s absolutely the best tool I’ve found for demonstrating how habitual and compulsive our behavior is and for expanding  self-awareness. Unless we develop self-awareness, we have little chance of changing or overriding our compulsive behavior.

Know Thyself

Was the ancient Greek sage who inscribed those words at the Temple of Apollo at Delphi exhorting us to understand ourselves? It isn’t entirely clear. But it is clear that Socrates, who insisted the unexamined life is not worth living, meant exactly that when he used the same words. But how do we examine our lives? How do we get to know ourselves?

The Enneagram is one means to that end. It is an apparently simple, yet rich and complex system that reveals our strengths and weaknesses, our deeper-level motivations, and most importantly, the compulsions that often rule our (unexamined) lives. We move through this world under the impression we’re making authentic choices, but most of the time we’re just blindly following our compulsions, doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different outcome. We’re living our lives on autopilot; asleep at the wheel.

Only after we become aware of our habitual patterns of behavior and responses can we turn the autopilot switch off and freelychoose what to do or how to respond. The better we know ourselves, the less likely we are to be ruled by our compulsions. The less we are ruled by our compulsions, the more open and authentic we are. Gaining this depth of personal knowledge and understanding has another benefit, also pointed out by Socrates: it helps us understand other people better, too. In fact, Socrates believed we have to understand ourselves before we can truly understand anyone or anything else.

At the simplest level, the Enneagram can be viewed as a personality typing system, but don’t think recognizing and accepting your Enneagram type will strip you of your unique sense of identity or individuality by lumping you together with every other person of the same type. Far from being a narrow one-size-fits-all box, each point has plenty of room for subtleties and variations.

Since it doesn’t simply pigeonhole people, but is a comprehensive and multifaceted system, it takes a bit of effort to fully grasp. Numerous books are now available on the Enneagram, written from various perspectives. Below is a very basic overview of the key elements.

Enneagram is a Greek word that means nine points. The Enneagram symbol is composed of a triangle and a hexad within a circle.

enneagram_small

 

The resulting nine points represent nine basic, or core, personality types, each of which has a unique perspective and approach to life. The theory behind the Enneagram is that we each polarize at one of the nine points. We then overdevelop the characteristics associated with that point, while leaving the characteristics associated with the other points undeveloped. So each point also represents a particular type of imbalance. Our core personality type doesn’t change over the course of a lifetime, but as we become aware of our imbalances, we gain the ability to moderate them. We are no longer ruled by them.

Read the rest of the post here.Enhanced by Zemanta

Filed Under: Beliefs, Brain, Consciousness, Enneagram, Habit, Living, Mind Tagged With: beliefs, Brain, Consciousness, Enneagram, Habit, Know thyself, Mind, Personality type, Psychology

Intentions: Mistakes Were Made

July 23, 2013 by Joycelyn Campbell Leave a Comment

should what?
(Photo credit: 416style)

Creating an intention seems like something that should be pretty straightforward. So why isn’t it? There are three common mistakes almost all of us have made when we’ve set out to do something.

Mistake #1

The clue to Mistake #1 appears in the first sentence of this post: the word should. We have many concepts about the way things should be, but even more about how we should be and what we should be able to do. In the context of creating intentions, the word should needs to be banished. It isn’t helpful, and it sets us up to have unrealistic expectations. Why start out by pitting your actual self against an idealized self who can easily do whatever it is you’re currently struggling with? That makes absolutely no sense, yet we do it all the time.

If you have created an intention to do something because you think you should do it or you should be able to do it, let it go. You’re not going to be able to commit to something you should do, and you’re probably not willing to do whatever it takes to accomplish it since you think you should already be doing it. The fact that you aren’t doing it means you’re just not trying or you’re lazy or incapable or have no will power. You’ve prejudged yourself as somehow lacking, so you’ve lost before you’ve even begun.

Mistake #2

Sometimes there are entire areas of our lives we want to revamp, so we create an intention to do just that. No baby steps for us; we’re going for the gold! But trying to tackle too much all at once is another recipe for failure because the chance of succeeding is miniscule at best. When we take baby steps we have a much better chance of accomplishing what we set out to do. Then we can build on our success. When we aim to do it all at once and miss the mark, we end up with nothing but a reinforced sense of ineffectiveness or inadequacy.

Another thing to remember is that when you try to do many things at the same time, you’re giving yourself many opportunities to fail. If you want to develop a habit that involves doing something multiple times during the day, start out by creating an intention to do it once or twice a day—or even every other day. Once you’ve succeeded with that, you can expand on it. This is the kind of mistake we often make when starting an exercise program. Add Mistake #1 to the mix—the belief that you should be exercising for a certain number of minutes every day—and you might as well just pick up the remote and head for the couch.

Mistake #3

The third mistake we make when creating an intention is that we are vague rather than specific. Maybe we aren’t consciously trying to give ourselves wiggle room, but that’s what vagueness does to intentions: it paves the way for us to wiggle right out of them. There are a lot of reasons we’re vague. Maybe we think just creating the intention should be sufficient. (Is there a voice in your head that says if you really want to do something, you’ll do it? Tell it to shut up.) Or our schedule is too variable for us to be specific. Or we want to maintain our flexibility. Wiggle, wiggle, wiggle.

The reason for being specific when creating an intention is that vagueness simply doesn’t work so creating a vague intention is a waste of time. If you want to do something twice a week, decide on the days of the week and the time of day you will do it. If your schedule varies, make appointments with yourself and write them on your calendar or in your planner. Treat your appointments with yourself the same way you would treat an appointment with someone else. Give yourself a little respect. If you know what result you want, think through the steps you’ll need to take to achieve it. Make the steps your intention and the result will follow.

Creating an intention really is pretty straightforward, but only if we know what works and what doesn’t work.Enhanced by Zemanta

Filed Under: Beliefs, Brain, Consciousness, Creating, Habit, Mind, Purpose Tagged With: beliefs, Brain, Consciousness, Habits, Intention, Mind

Keep Calm?

May 16, 2013 by Joycelyn Campbell 1 Comment

Keep calm

Thanks to www.womenworking.com. I couldn’t agree more!

Filed Under: Beliefs, Creating, Living, Meaning, Purpose Tagged With: beliefs, Living, Meaning, Purpose

Well, if Albert Einstein Said It…

May 9, 2013 by Joycelyn Campbell 4 Comments

Albert Einstein during a lecture in Vienna in ...
Albert Einstein in 1921 (age 42). (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Recently, I’ve come across several quotes attributed to Albert Einstein that sound more like something you would read in The Secret or another New Age book. So I attempted to track down a couple of them–as have many other equally suspicious individuals–and discovered that there are quite a few quotes out there that cannot be traced to Mr. Einstein.

The quote below originated with an individual who believes he channels an extra-terrestrial named Bashar.

Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.

The actual source seems to have been Bashar. But the quote wouldn’t get as much play if it was attributed to Bashar, since he doesn’t have Albert Einstein’s face or name recognition.

Einstein, however, seems to be getting fed up with all of these false attributions.

Einstein quote

I didn’t create that one, but it would have been extremely easy to do.

Quotes are falsely attributed to Albert Einstein to give them an air of believably, respectability, and scientific authenticity. If Einstein said it, it must be true. It’s also easy to swallow something uncritically if it fits our already existing beliefs–well, especially if it fits our already existing beliefs.

Ideas should be judged on their own merits. If an idea or concept is “true” or worthwhile, it shouldn’t have to get traction by being falsely placed in the mouth of Albert Einstein. Besides, it isn’t really fair, is it? The man’s in no position to defend himself.Enhanced by Zemanta

Filed Under: Beliefs, Living Tagged With: Albert Einstein, beliefs, fake Einstein quotations

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