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How UNreasonable Can You Be?

February 10, 2014 by Joycelyn Campbell 5 Comments

People of Accomplishment
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There is general, though not absolute, agreement that being reasonable is good and being unreasonable is bad. Depending on how you define the terms, however, you can find more than one way to parse the differences between them.

I tried being reasonable; I didn’t like it. –Clint Eastwood

Some of the most awake and alive experiences of my life have occurred while I was trying to do things that were so outrageously unreasonable they seemed impossible to accomplish. Apparently, I like challenges. But that may just be part of my temperament. I was never particularly reasonable, even as a child—some might say especially as a child.

Some synonyms for reasonable are: sensible, logical, rational, moderate, mild, well-balanced, agreeable, and fair.

Some synonyms for unreasonable are: excessive, immoderate, illogical, irrational, extravagant, extreme, wild, and unrestrained.

A reasonable person is considered to be prudent and cautious, someone who avoids extremes. But reasonable can also mean mediocre, ordinary, average, and tolerable. And unreasonable can mean bold, daring, audacious, exceptional, and unexpected. An unreasonable person may keep going even after reaching reasonable limits. An unreasonable person may have unreasonable expectations—of herself and of others.

The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man. [Or woman!] –George Bernard Shaw

Reasonable people tend to take fewer risks than unreasonable people take. Reasonable is often the safer course—but not always. Nor is it always the best course.

Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men. –Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Creativity and reasonableness often don’t mesh, since being reasonable requires a degree of cognitive inhibition, while some stages of creativity require cognitive disinhibition.

Certainly you aren’t likely to be faulted for being reasonable and for refusing to accept unreasonable demands, requests, or challenges.

But remember that when you aim for reasonable, then reasonable is probably the best you can hope to achieve.

Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? –Mary Oliver

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Filed Under: Beliefs, Choice, Consciousness, Creating, Living, Meaning, Mind Tagged With: Accomplishment, Achievement, Clint Eastwood, George Bernard Shaw, Living, Mary Oliver, Meaning, Reasonableness, Unreasonableness

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  1. Deborah says

    February 10, 2014 at 5:28 pm

    Reblogged this on Container Chronicles and commented:
    Have you been held back by the mandate to “be reasonable”? This post helps free me for better things. Unreasonableness, here I come. 🙂

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  2. Deborah says

    February 10, 2014 at 5:31 pm

    It’s amazing to me how many things we are learning about the brain are counter-intuitive to the conventional societal “wisdom.” It’s as if those who have those unreasonable tendencies that you describe from your “especially” childhood are really the ones most in tune with what is possible. The disconnect between reasonable and creative is indeed striking. Lots to think about here.

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    • Joycelyn says

      February 10, 2014 at 5:33 pm

      Sometimes I think one has to have a think skin in order to be unreasonable. But what the heck. No point in living one’s life for other people’s approval, right?

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      • Deborah says

        February 10, 2014 at 5:36 pm

        Especially since other people’s approval is such a crap shoot anyway. Why not spend the time figuring out what other people will approve of when you could do something unreasonable and creative, right? 😉

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